On personal connections and new connections
In a world that seems increasingly divided, I find myself reflecting on the importance of genuine human connections. Recently, I revisited a journal entry on this very topic and was struck by how even the simplest preferences—like choosing between tea or coffee—can mirror the deeper divides we see politically. The turbulence we’re experiencing isn’t new, but it feels more pronounced, affecting every corner of the globe, from developing nations to established democracies.
I often attribute this turmoil to a lack of education. Take France, for example. A political party gaining traction here focuses on immigration and public funds, yet their policies don’t seem to benefit their supporters. This disconnect, I believe, stems from a gap in economic understanding. Many in France, especially those who go straight to trade school, miss out on learning about finance and economics. When these issues come up in conversation, basic economic principles often seem foreign to them. Without this foundation, fear can take hold—especially when cultural shifts introduce new languages and influences.
Language, after all, is deeply tied to culture. As someone who speaks multiple languages, I notice how each one brings a different perspective. When I speak English, I feel a sense of collectivism and community, likely influenced by my experiences volunteering. French, on the other hand, connects me to my heritage and a sense of individualism—perhaps because volunteering isn’t as deeply ingrained in French culture.
This fear of the unfamiliar can make people hesitant to engage with those who hold different views. It’s understandable, but it’s also what divides us. Too often, people avoid conversations and authentic friendships, opting instead for alliances based on convenience. But why can’t we enjoy each other’s company despite our differences? Genuine connections are built on trust and respect, not complete agreement.
I’ve seen this firsthand in my friendship with a close friend from Russia. Politically, we’re worlds apart, yet our bond is strong. We understand each other without needing to finish sentences. This connection transcends cultural differences, proving that meaningful relationships can thrive despite diverse backgrounds.
Living in France as a Canadian, I’ve experienced significant cultural differences. Yet, these differences don’t prevent me from forming deep connections. Many of my friends here are international, having traveled and lived abroad. Some speak English fluently; others have never left their hometowns. These factors shape our relationships, influencing how we communicate and the depth of our interactions. Language barriers might exist, but they don’t define our ability to connect.
As we navigate this turbulent world, let’s focus on building bridges rather than walls. Embrace the adventure of connecting with others, even when their views differ from our own. If this resonates with you, consider subscribing to join me on this journey of personal growth and meaningful relationships.
Together, we can create a future where understanding and respect triumph over division.
Happy adventuring,
Ahmed